“Your identity as a child of God gives your life meaning and purpose. Relationships with other people improve as you relate to them with
love and forgiveness.”
Jesus Always, March 10
Understanding the difference between identity and vocation will give you a ton of understanding and help you breathe a little easier. So let’s separate them out.
Identity is who you are, and who you are defines your worth. You are
made in the image of God. You are unique. There is no one like you. That
uniqueness includes your gifting, your personality, your skill set. You were
made by God and for God, and He crafted you with His design in mind (Colossians
1:16). You are also called to minister to others. That is who you are. That is
your life purpose.
The vocation part is what you choose to do with your time, like your
work, and there’s a lot of wiggle room inside that. During the course of their
lives, I think most people do a lot of different things vocationally. For me, I
can think of about ten jobs I’ve had between the ages of twenty and fifty. I’ve
been a pre-school teacher, a drama instructor, a public speaker, an author, a
radio co-host. I’ve created small businesses that brought in income to help
with our family budget.
Vocationally, I’ve been all over the map. If I defined my worth or
identity by my ability to stay the course doing one thing vocationally or by
making big money, I’d feel like a colossal failure. Instead, I stay focused on
my identity before God. I am made by Him and for Him, and in all the things
I’ve chosen to do, I try to honor Him.
“The path I have called you to travel is exquisitely right for you. The more closely you follow My leading the more fully I can develop your gifts.”
–Jesus Calling, July 20
In his book Prayers from the Heart, theologian Richard Foster talks
about his life purpose in a way that resonates with me: “My whole life, in one sense, has been an experiment in
how to be a portable sanctuary, learning to practice the presence of God.”
Everywhere you go, as you
practice the presence of God in your life, you’re like a small sanctuary to the
people closest by. So that means when you’re on the way to work and you
interact with the barista in the morning, you’re standing there as a respite, giving
life and comfort to the person you’re talking to. As you hold a baby or read to
a toddler, you’re offering them sanctuary as you abide with God. Maybe in your
high-pressure job, your calm demeanor is a comfort to people who don’t know or
even care about God.
In each scenario, there you
are, a portable sanctuary, a daily relief. It’s that simple.
A lot of times, I think we
try to make this connection between our identity and our vocation too intense
and difficult, like being a minister for God means you should pack up your life
and move to a third-world country to be a missionary. You could be called to
that, and it could be dreamy and exotic in a sacrificial kind of way. But more
likely, your ministry for God is right where you are, in your home and at your
work.
Susie Davis is an author, speaker, and co-founder of Austin Christian Fellowship. She is married to her high school sweetheart Will, and the mother of 3 young adult children (and also a mother-in-law to 3!). Her latest book is Dear Daughters: Love Letters to the Next Generation. To learn more about Susie and her podcast Dear Daughters, visit her website.
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